Being outside heals me. Outside is bigger than all the sadness in my head. Getting out of my head is a good thing. I spend far too much time in there. -Me
Dear readers… this next post is personal. Since my blog is The Work and Ideas of Sky Evans it seemed time to post some ideas. But maybe it’s more of a confessional? Either way, if you like my art more than words, and you want to skip this wordy post, rest assured you aren’t missing much in the way of visuals. The art I used to illustrate this post is from my early years. Not very good IMO, but interesting to see this other side. Having said that, bear with me while I try something new. Not instructional, or piece specific musings but thoughtful, as in full of thought.
In the past few weeks I had the art show in the vineyard and summer time visits with relatives, (both most enjoyable) but lately the weather has rolled in HOT HOT HOT which makes it hard to get much done if you don’t get up early. I like the cold, it sharpens up my brain. Hot weather has me laying around with sweaty glasses of ice tea clutched in my paw, moaning about the heat.
Okay, so it’s not that bad. But the day after the show I did wake up and sigh. Not a “oh woe is me” sigh, or “damn I am about to be evicted” sigh or even a “the world is fucked and my life is ruined” sigh. Just a soft, weak, puppyish whimper… (I invoke the puppy image hoping to come off as cute instead of pathetic). It was a “what now” sigh that I have come to associate with the let down after a long slog uphill. The long slog was all the effort and energy getting ready for the show. Which was good, and productive but definitely falls in the “uphill” category.
Eight days later and it’s still not all put away. I seem to be having trouble getting my rhythm back after revving my engines for a week in anticipation of that 5 hours at the show. The hot weather does not help.
A thought and this post has been percolating away in my head since waking up with a “what-now-blues” feeling. It’s about temperament. Specifically, artist’s temperament. Somehow, somewhere, I picked up the notion that there was such a thing. And that kind of temperament meant that artists were moody, prone to jags, hard to get along with and somewhat bi-polar, though in the old days, we called it manic/depressive. As far as old days go, I am, literally, a child of the 60’s. Andy Warhol and Peter Max were household names. Jackson Pollock’s death and eccentric style was still in the forefront, and the music of the era included Don McLean’s famous “Vincent” which sparked a fresh look into Van Gogh and his famous mental illness. (His work is among my personal favorites.) Maybe these kinds of artists perpetuated the idea of the “artist’s temperament”. Regardless of where it came from, I somehow grew up with the notion that there was such a thing. And I was determined to prove it all wrong.
Determined is a good word to describe me. Not the only word, but a good one. It irked me that artists were considered touchy and had to be “handled” for some reason. Fuck that shit, I was as normal as normal could be. Wasn’t I? With a flip of my locks, I would snort derisively. I was determined to be happy, healthy, smart and together! Reasonable, logical, empathetic, someone who was kind, a good person. I wanted to be the best person I could be… I would not be a stereotype. No dark shadows here!!
If I was reading this aloud, here’s the part where I would laugh. Knowingly. Maybe even sarcastically.
Because no one is really normal. Normal doesn’t exist. Decades later, I am finally coming to the realization that normal is an average and averages are made up of numbers that are added together and divided by themselves. How can people be normal? The world is a crazy place (watching the news will prove that) so normal must be crazy. Maybe we should just embrace the crazy and applaud those who manage to cope and thrive amidst the chaos.
So then, is there an artistic temperament? For a long time I didn’t even want to admit to being an artist. Even after I had a degree in Art, one in Art Education and had been an art teacher I was in denial. I think I was denying the stereotype… but often stereotypes exist because they ring of truth. Sigh. So okay, here goes. Here’s my truth: I sometimes dance on the edge of depression. Not a “dancing with the stars” thing, but a little tap dance. I don’t believe I qualify for a full blown depression as outlined in the DSM-5 (not that I’ve read the description… I’d actually rather not know to what level I may rate) but little dark clouds have been a part of my life for a long, long time.
It’s my version of normal, those little dark shadows. When I was a pup myself, it was like waves of sadness. In my childish mind, I could image I even heard voices whispering to me. Nothing bad, but lonely and very sad. I told my mother about it once; bless her for not minimizing or ridiculing me in any way. I felt safe telling her about it. But that was as far as it went. Which may have been a good thing as it set me up to believe there wasn’t anything wrong about it and so, I didn’t worry about being sad. My coping technique at the time was to sing. I memorized the words to the Eagles song, “Peaceful Easy Feeling” and would invoke it whenever those shadows came a calling. It always worked. One run through and my brain was back on track and feeling peaceful and easy.
Well, I grew up and out of my imagined whispering and as life got busy and hectic, the shadows ebbed and were kept at bay with activity. Alcohol in judicious amounts is also a tool for ignoring those small voices. I never was much of a drinker though, I have a fine line for it’s toxic effects. I’m basically a cheap date. Instead I hiked or rode away the sadness. Being outside heals me. Outside is bigger than all the sadness in my head.
But here’s the funny thing about little dark clouds. They come back around when you aren’t looking. You wake up in the morning and there they are raining on your personal parade. They leave you with a low grade sadness that is aptly named “The Blues”. As a color, I like blue, but as for “The Blues”, well, they fuel my passion for leaving them behind. If I get up and get moving and do something I can outrun them. Maybe that’s why runners run. I’m not a runner, but I can paint. And when I paint, or create, I get out of my head. Getting out of my head is a good thing. I spend far too much time in there.
In effect, I create because I have to. So maybe there is something to this Artist’s Temperament after all. Am I an artist because I have the temperament or do I have the temperament because I am an artist?
Either way, it’s also telling to me that I spend the most time with people who I believe fall on the low end of the crazy spectrum. I can do edgy people, but only in small doses. But if indeed it is normal to be a touch crazy, then that puts me in the small doses band for everyone. In other words, I can only “do people” in small doses. Which makes me an introvert. And indeed I do need alone time just to recuperate from normal social interactions. Sometimes trying to stay dry under my own clouds is about all I can manage.